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But it should be obvious that the targets of jokes and insults have every right to react and respond. Long live creative license and free speech. It should go without saying that comedians are free to say what they please. Done less well, it leaves its targets feeling raw, exposed and wounded - not mortally, but wounded. It can force us to look in the mirror and get honest with ourselves, to laugh and move forward. Done well, comedy can offer witty, biting observations about human frailties.
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Thick skin comes up often in the context of comedy.
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It’s an alluring idea to some, I suppose. If we all had the thickest of skins, no one would have to take responsibility for cruelties, big or small. If the targets of derision only had thicker skin, their aggressors could say or do as they please. Who is served by all this thick skin? Those who want to behave with impunity. I’m not talking about constructive criticism or accountability but, rather, the intense scrutiny and unnecessary commentary people have to deal with when they challenge others’ expectations one way or another.
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Toughen yourself, we’re told, whoever we are, whatever we’ve been through or are going through. I think a lot about how we are constantly asked to make our skin ever thicker. It is a rejection of the expectation that we laugh off everything people want to say and do to us. It is a repudiation of the incessant valorizing of taking a joke, having a sense of humor. It is a defense of boundaries and being human and enforcing one’s limits. This is not a defense of Will Smith, who does not need me to defend him.